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    Incel transforming SUCESSPILL ITT - this is it boyos everyone in this thread will make it

    I worked for many years as a PUA and confidence coach. I've had literally thousands of paying clients, and at least 98% of them got phone numbers, kisses, or got laid directly as a result of the work we did together. I'm not saying this to show off, or to get anyone to pay me money any more (not interested in doing it for work any more) - but rather as a demonstration that I'm not just some random guy with an opinion on the internet.

    If you want to be good with girls, then you have to be comfortable around them.
    If you want to be comfortable around them, you have to spend time around them.
    Most guys, initially don't feel comfortable around girls they feel are hot, or significantly better looking than them.
    If you only feel comfortable around 1/10s, spend time with them. Fuck enough 1/10s, and you'll feel comfortable with 2/10s, then fuck enough 2/10s and you'll feel comfortable with 3/10s etc.
    The types of girls you can fuck isn't decided by how you look (unless you're a 10) - girls decide everything about the world about how it makes them feel - if you're able to be totally comfortable around a girl, in her brain, she will see you at her level or above.

    No one goes to the gym and lifts their target weight - you start where you start, and then work your way up - with girls it's exactly the same.

    If you were wanting to learn to walk the tightrope, you wouldn't start with your rope between two buildings as you'd be too terrified to ever make progress, you'd start 6 inches up from the ground, where if you fell you wouldn't care, and just jump straight back on.

    So don't start off with 10s where rejection will crush you into bits. Start with 1s (or where ever) where you don't care, and have fun - have a laugh, it is much more possible to have a laugh, and enjoy spending time banging a girl if you're less concerned about the whole situation in general.

    Talk to girls every day - make it a rule to start conversations wherever - make a deal with yourself that if you dont talk to 3 girls a day (about anything, it's not important) that you'll give $10 to a homeless guy (or whatever you don't want to do).

    Consistant small actions are the ones that change lives.

    Good luck!

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    no.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CuckernautShitness View Post
    no.
    I know you think of yourself as a repulsive gargoyle who isn't worth even a fat tranny's time - but I'm being 100% serious with you when I say I'm sure I've worked with people in worse position than you. I've worked with people in wheelchairs, deaf, false legs, colostomy bags, facial scars, on the autism spectrum, and even pakis.
    You have the ability to change your situation dramatically - perhaps it won't happen overnight (though in some people it can be super quick) - the most important thing to realise is that your current situation is a direct consequence of your current habits - and if you keep these habits, your future is pretty much guaranteed to be a continuation of your current situation.
    If you want a different future, you have to change your habits, and as horrible and uncomfortable that might seem, it's a part of growing as a person, and will get easier over time as you start to see success. Probably everything in your life currently is supporting your current mood and world view and that can be super tough to change. My tip is to choose an activity which you feel is something you would never do - perhaps an adrenaline sport, perhaps debating, something which you just could never imagine yourself doing but aren't hugely invested in, and then commit to doing it - you should find than once you've been able to change one thing ,the next will be easier.

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    all hope is gone CuckernautShitness's Avatar
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    Quote Originally Posted by MoominTroll View Post
    I know you think of yourself as a repulsive gargoyle who isn't worth even a fat tranny's time .
    stop bullying me

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    Quote Originally Posted by CuckernautShitness View Post
    stop bullying me
    Was actually just quoting things that you've said about yourself so you would know that i wasn't just giving general advice.

    And this was my response to you negging me.

    If you think this is bullying....!

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    all hope is gone CuckernautShitness's Avatar
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    your advice is useless for someone like me there is no hope

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    Quote Originally Posted by CuckernautShitness View Post
    your advice is useless for someone like me there is no hope
    Hit up some bbw girls man its gonna work out

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    Quote Originally Posted by CuckernautShitness View Post
    stop bullying me
    you dense phaggot, @MoominTroll is trying to help your sorry ass

    listen for once in your life or be forever damned

    delicate flower my ass, if you can't handle encouraging and supportive messages then why the fuck do you come here to interact anyway?

    I'm done with that, tbh
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    Very positive message, I feel like you can apply this attitude to multiple endeavors.

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    Everyone can get a girl, super easy, but they need to be 6+/10 srs
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    this advice doesnt work for ugly men like me.

    im a successful man with a decent body, but ive been rejected by 600 pound women.

    i am the ugliest man on earth
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    I like girls with beautiful buttholes (you can say Im a crack addict)
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    Quote Originally Posted by MassiveLoads420 View Post
    this advice doesnt work for ugly men like me.

    im a successful man with a decent body, but ive been rejected by 600 pound women.

    i am the ugliest man on earth
    Damn, can you PM me pics, I'm genuinely curious. I won't share.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Death Knight View Post
    Damn, can you PM me pics, I'm genuinely curious. I won't share.
    im way 2 embarrassed dont want ppl makin fun of me for me hideous looks
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    Quote Originally Posted by MassiveLoads420 View Post
    this advice doesnt work for ugly men like me.

    im a successful man with a decent body, but ive been rejected by 600 pound women.

    i am the ugliest man on earth
    Seriously - the worst is actually looking super average. Standing out in a crowd is a good thing - much better than being forgettable.

    There are ugly guys slaying right now, just when they're comfortable being around women, they say they have "interesting features"

    And unless you're interested in 600lb women, why are you caring about her opinion?

    If this carries on, we'll have to have an uglyiest man on fitmisc competition, with a free tranny bumhole to the winner!

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    just bee konfidunt brah

    hope that helped

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    @MoominTroll is so right as is @BrotherBlaha im done trying to help this kid I think/hope he is trolling
    All posts by the Shabbatai account are a work of fiction and nothing is real, it was all a prank bro crew you got trolled hard geek

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    Quote Originally Posted by BasedLad View Post
    just bee konfidunt brah

    hope that helped
    It's not a case of just being confident, just like lifting isn't a case of just be strong. Being comfortable in situations is a factor of time and practice, and the reason for this post is that the culture of "no one should touch any girl under a 9.7/10" is super harmful to your guys development in that it's like saying no one should bench press less than 300lb - no one would ever progress if you took that approach in the gym, so why would any other situation be like that?

    I wouldn't have spent years of my life helping people put this into practice if I hadn't seen the affects first hand and it saddens me to see people on here allowing some of these negative ways of looking at the world spread to people who should have hope!

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    OP is 100 percent right. For me it's been a matter of simply putting myself out there. At first I struggled to talk to women and even other men. Slowly I get better at it as I continue to make small talk and train myself......

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    Even the hottest girls eventually become ugly to me. Iíve realized that girls really arenít important in my life unless Iím on a horny binge then anything will do long as her skin isnít too dark and sheís not that old

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    Quote Originally Posted by MoominTroll View Post
    It's not a case of just being confident, just like lifting isn't a case of just be strong. Being comfortable in situations is a factor of time and practice, and the reason for this post is that the culture of "no one should touch any girl under a 9.7/10" is super harmful to your guys development in that it's like saying no one should bench press less than 300lb - no one would ever progress if you took that approach in the gym, so why would any other situation be like that?

    I wouldn't have spent years of my life helping people put this into practice if I hadn't seen the affects first hand and it saddens me to see people on here allowing some of these negative ways of looking at the world spread to people who should have hope!
    this idea that you can start off by banging 1/10s and work your way up to banging 9/10s is complete cope though
    most girls never ever go below their looksmatch with extremely rare exceptions for men with high money/status or mentally ill girls and even then it'll almost never be more than 2 points below their looksmatch


 
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